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Thursday, 10 October 2024

How to learn Tarot without Memorizing - #TarotThursday

October 10, 2024 0 Comments

Tarot reading is an ancient divination practice that involves using a deck of cards to gain insight into various aspects of life, including relationships, career, and personal growth. While memorizing the meanings of each card can be beneficial in tarot reading, it is not the only path to mastery. In fact, relying solely on memorization may limit your ability to tap into the intuitive and transformative aspects of tarot.


Learning tarot without solely depending on memorization allows you to develop a deeper connection with the cards and cultivate your intuition. By exploring alternative approaches, you can uncover unique interpretations and insights that may not be found in traditional guidebooks.

While understanding the traditional meanings associated with each card can serve as a helpful foundation, tarot reading is a dynamic and personal practice that involves interpretation and storytelling. It's about using the imagery, symbols, and energies of the cards to create a narrative that resonates with both the cards themselves and the individual you are reading for.


By embracing a more intuitive approach, you can tap into the wisdom and guidance that arises from within yourself and the cards. This method encourages you to trust your instincts, listen to your inner voice, and allow the cards to speak to you in their own unique language.


In this way, tarot reading becomes a collaborative process between you, the cards, and the person seeking a reading. It is a practice that invites you to be present, open-minded, and receptive to the messages and insights that emerge through the reading.


Here are some tips for learning tarot without relying on memorization:

  • Develop your intuition: Tarot reading is not just about interpreting the meanings of the cards, but also about tapping into your intuition and inner wisdom. Spend time meditating or doing other practices that help you connect with your intuition.

  • Look at the images: Tarot cards are filled with symbolism and imagery that can provide clues to their meanings. Spend time studying the images on the cards and noticing what they convey to you.

  • Practice reading for others: The best way to learn tarot is by practicing with real people. Offer free readings to friends and family members and see what insights come through for them.

  • Use prompts: Rather than relying on memorized meanings, use prompts to help guide your readings. For example, you might ask yourself, "What does this card tell me about the person's current situation?" or "How can this card offer guidance for the person's next steps?"

  • Trust your instincts: Ultimately, tarot reading is about trusting your instincts and allowing the cards to guide you. Don't worry too much about getting everything "right." Instead, focus on being present with the person you are reading for and allowing the cards to reveal insights and guidance.

While memorization can certainly be helpful, it is not the sole path to becoming a skilled tarot reader. Embrace your intuition, explore the imagery, and allow the cards to guide you on a transformative journey of self-discovery and connection with others.



Friday, 6 September 2024

10 Songs by Min Yoongi (a.k.a SUGA of BTS) That Speak to the Soul #FeatureFriday

September 06, 2024 0 Comments

 



If you are someone like me who finds much of their comfort and motivation from books and music, then this post will be of help to you.

For those of you who do not know who Min Yoongi is, let me introduce you to SUGA of BTS. Whether you have heard their songs or not, I am sure you have heard of BTS, the South Korean boy band that is taking over the world (I kid you not!). SUGA is Min Yoongi’s stage name as a part of BTS. He is a rapper, lyricist, composer and music producer. He is probably most widely known as SUGA because of the popularity of BTS and as SUGA he has co-written and co-produced many of BTS’s songs. Aside from that, SUGA also produces music for other artists. Eight by IU, That That by Psy, and Wine by Suran are some of his award winning songs as a producer. He also uses the name Agust D for his solo projects.

Min Yoongi has a unique way of blending raw honesty with soothing melodies. Both as SUGA or as Agust D, his music often resonates deeply, especially during life's tough phases. If you’ve ever in need of a comforting companion through the rough patches that we all have to face in life, his songs might just be that warm blanket you need!



Here are the 10 songs by Min Yoongi that brought me much comfort:



10. Song Request; by Lee Sora ft. SUGA


This is a quintessential break up song by Lee Sora, that features SUGA as a writer and rapper. It is a sentimental song with a slow sweet melody that suits the mood of a person who has broken up with someone but yet to completely let go. SUGA has one verse in it but that one verse is enough to comfort you because in typical SUGA style, his verse is like a direct conversation with you - the listener.

“When you’re intoxicated with memories

And bring someone up

That’s when I become your music”

You can watch the music video here: {For K-drama lovers - the MV features actor Byeon Woo-Seok of the recent Lovely Runner fame in a scene.}

  


9. So Far Away ft. Suran; Agust D Mixtape


Have you ever had days that suddenly hit you with certain realisations? There you are hustling to pay the bills and make a good living, and all of a sudden you realise that you no longer remember the dream that you were working towards? Or maybe, remember the days when you were passionate about something but now you don’t even remember why? And it disorients you a bit? Well, on days like that, listen to this song.

“Dream, I will be there for your creation

Until the end of your life

Dream, wherever you might be

It will be lenient

Dream, you will fully bloom

After all the hardships

Dream, your beginnings will seem humble

So prosperous will your future be"

8. First Love; BTS - You Never Walk Alone


‘First Love’ is SUGA’s solo song for the BTS album. The song is, as the title suggests, about his first love - a brown piano of his childhood. The song is a conversation between SUGA and this piano. But is it really only about the piano from his childhood that may have sparked his love for music? I would love to ask him that. But personally I felt that the song is also about how there are things that NEVER change through your lifespan - whether you stick to it or whether you leave it and later find your way back to it years later. Maybe, it is also a bit about our innocence as a child that let’s us see the things we love without the filter that the world puts on us? Tell me what you think after you have listened to it.

“Yeah, yeah I remember back then
When I was fed up and lost

Back then when I fell into a pit of despair

Even when I pushed you away

Even when I resented meeting you

You were firmly by my side

You didn't have to say anything

So don't ever let go of my hand

I won't let you go ever again either

My birth and the end of my life

You will be there to watch over it all”

This is my favourite version of the song:


7. People; D-2 Mixtape


Ever feel tired of the people around you? Ever feel ‘heavy’ because of all the judgements and expectations? Tired of colouring within the tight boundaries set for you? I do not know how to verbalise what this song means except to say it made me feel seen. You have to listen to it for yourself and tell me what you get out of this song, ‘cause I don’t have words.


“What's good is good, in the end

What's good is good

Things don’t always go as intended

Discomfort is something everyone has to withstand

The repetition of dramatic situations can make your life exhausting”


6. People Pt.2 ft. IU; D-Day Studio Album


Another song that really looks a deeper look into people and their experiences in life. I would like to invite you to choose the sweetest thing about this song and your choices are - Yoongi’s lyrics, IU’s vocals & the black Labrador in the MV. The first thing that really ‘got’ me in this song is probably not my favourite part of this song (hint: my favourite part is Yoongi’s vocals in this) - the opening lines sung by IU. I would really like to know what those lines mean to you, dear reader.


“Selflessness can actually be selfish, too, it's true

It's actually my greed when I say that it’s all for you

Will I be happy if I give up my greed

A half-illusion that can never be fulfilled”


Experience this song through the MV & good luck:



5. Trivia 轉: Seesaw; BTS - Proof


Another solo song of SUGA in BTS’s discography, Seesaw is really what had me spiralling and paying attention to Yoongi & his lyrics. I have written a whole separate post on about Seesaw here, so I’ll keep it short - if you have been through the push and pull in any kind of relationship in your life - you must listen through this one.


“People can be so conniving

We know someone gets hurt if the other is gone

But neither of us want to be the bad guy

In the midst of a series of vague responsibilities, umm-umm

We became so sick of each other that we finally became parallel

Ay, although this wasn't the kind of parallel that I wanted"


4. Dear My Friend ft. Kim Jong Wan; D-2 Mixtape


Ever lost someone close to you in your life? Have you ever felt somehow responsible how things turned out in that person’s life? Have you ever wondered if YOU could have done something to change what happened? Have you felt certain other negative feelings because of that ‘was I somehow responsible’? Have you wondered how it would be today if that person was still your life? If you have, I dare you to listen to this song when you are on your own and not cry! The pain & regret in the song came through to me even before I looked up the lyrics.


“Was it you who changed? Or was it me? Uh

I hate this flowing time, it's us who changed

Hey, I hate you, hey, I don't like you

Hey, even as I say these words, I miss you”


3. Life Goes On; D-Day Studio Album

The contrast between BTS/SUGA and August D is always very stark, but none so in your face like this song. That is because BTS has a song of same title, and Yoongi has used his lines from that in this version (I do not know which version was written first). While BTS version of ‘Life Goes On’ is much happier, positive and hopeful - which is what BTS does for their ARMYs (unless the rapline has some scores to settle 😝) - August D gives you a reality check but leave you with some hope without you realising it.

“I know, I know this place right now

A place that will soon become a memory

Don't be afraid until the end of my life

Because life will go on forever”


2. Amygdala; D-Day Studio Album

The MV comes with a trigger warning & the song should too. The song is deeply personal and the MV is very visual. The title ‘Amygdala’ itself is a warning because Amygdala actually of the part of the brain that stores the memories that the brain thinks you need to remember for your survival - so basically the harshest memories that you’d rather forget. So yeah, it will either trigger you or help you heal. It’s really a toss-up depending on where you are in your healing journey. Proceed with caution.


“So, is all countless suffering for my own good?

What didn't kill me only made me stronger

And I begin to bloom like a lotus flower once again"


1. Snooze ft. Ryuichi Sakamoto & Woosung; D-Day Studio Album


Yoongi wrote this song for everyone who idolize him and want to follow in his steps. It’s once again a reality check about how the path ahead of them is not going to be easy, but also provides a bit of hope through his presence and his words. You don't have to be dreaming of becoming a k-pop idol to be able to relate to it or to feel consoled. Nobody understands the power of words like Yoongi does. In this song he shows how being honest with your words can have a larger impact on people and how the repetitive (and the almost meditative way he delivers them) words can have a deeper effect (in this case a positive effect) on a person.


“Everything will be okay, Everything will be okay,

Everything will be okay, Everything will be okay,

Everything will be okay, Everything will be okay,

Everything will be okay, Everything will be okay,

Everything will be okay, Everything will be okay,

Everything will be okay, Everything will be okay,

Everything will be okay, Everything will be okay,

Everything will be okay, Everything will be okay.”


Here's my tattoo inspired by Snooze:


Like any form of art, music/songs are open to interpretation. Your interpretation is going to be different from me - depending on both personality and experience. As such, I do hope you see some of the things that I saw in these songs - but at the same time, I hope that you will see completely different things. Am I making sense?


Each of these songs serves as a reminder that we are not alone and that resilience and hope can guide us through the darkest moments. Whether you're navigating personal struggles or simply need a reminder of your own inner strength, Agust D’s words will always be there for you.





Monday, 12 August 2024

Falling Into Your Smile #CDrama #Review

August 12, 2024 0 Comments

'Fall into Your Smile' is a refreshing and heartwarming Chinese drama that skillfully combines the themes of sportsmanship and the impact of cyberbullying through its plotline and various characters. The series strikes a chord with viewers as it delves into the world of competitive eSports and the challenges faced by professional gamers, both on and off the virtual battleground. 


Sportsmanship in eSports:

One of the standout aspects of 'Fall into Your Smile' is its exploration of sportsmanship within the realm of competitive gaming. The drama follows the journey of Lu Sicheng "Chessman" (played by Xu Kai), a skilled eSports player who strives to reclaim his reputation after facing a career setback. Throughout the series, the importance of teamwork, fair play, and mutual respect among players is emphasized, bringing the spirit of true sportsmanship to the forefront. The drama showcases the camaraderie and genuine friendships formed within the eSports community, leaving viewers with a heartwarming message about the essence of healthy competition.

Overcoming Cyberbullying:

'Fall into Your Smile' takes a brave step in addressing the often-ignored issue of cyberbullying. As Tong Yao "Smiling" (played by Cheng Xiao) faces malicious online attacks that tarnish her reputation and self-esteem, the series highlights the devastating impact of cyberbullying on individuals' mental and emotional well-being. The show doesn't shy away from portraying the real-life consequences of these actions, shedding light on the importance of empathy and responsibility when engaging with others online. The drama also showcases the strength and resilience of the characters as they rise above the negativity, fostering an inspiring message about standing strong against cyberbullying.

Character Development and Empathy:

The character development in 'Fall into Your Smile' is well-executed, allowing the audience to form deep connections with the protagonists and antagonists alike. Lu Sicheng's transformation from a proud and arrogant gamer to a more compassionate and self-aware individual is both relatable and endearing.  The drama encourages viewers to empathize with the struggles and motivations of each character, urging them to consider the repercussions of their actions on others.

Representation of eSports:

The drama provides an authentic glimpse into the world of eSports, reflecting the dedication, hard work, and passion that professional gamers invest in their careers. From training sessions to intense competitions, 'Fall into Your Smile' accurately portrays the life of eSports players, earning the admiration of fans and gamers alike.


Conclusion:

'Fall into Your Smile' is a compelling Chinese drama that strikes a perfect balance between sportsmanship, the consequences of internet bullying, and the thrilling world of eSports. The series' portrayal of fair play, camaraderie, and resilience sends a powerful message about the importance of mutual respect in competitive environments. Furthermore, its honest depiction of cyberbullying serves as a poignant reminder of the impact online actions can have on an individual's life.

The talented cast, led by Cheng Xiao an Xu Kai's impressive performance, brings the characters to life with authenticity and emotion. The show's captivating storytelling and meaningful themes make it a must-watch for viewers seeking a blend of heartwarming drama and insightful commentary on real-world issues.

Special mention to Merxat Yalkun as Yu Ming "Ming" 😀

Overall Rating: ★★★★☆ (4/5 stars)


'Fall into Your Smile' delivers a memorable viewing experience, inspiring audiences with its uplifting message about sportsmanship, empathy, and triumph over cyberbullying.



Monday, 15 July 2024

#ProductReview :: Riitek PeriPage Portable Thermal Printer

July 15, 2024 0 Comments

The Riitek PeriPage Portable Thermal Printer has certainly piqued my interest with its wireless Bluetooth connectivity and portable design. After using it for a while, I've come to appreciate its convenience and versatility, but it does have a few areas where improvements could be made. Here's my review of the Riitek PeriPage Pocket Printer:


Pros:

Compact and Portable Design:

The PeriPage's pocket-sized design is a standout feature, making it easy to carry around wherever I go. Its lightweight construction ensures it doesn't add much weight to my bag, making it a perfect travel companion.

Wireless Bluetooth Connectivity:

Connecting the printer to my smartphone or other devices via Bluetooth is a breeze. I like the convenience of being able to print wirelessly, without the need for any messy cables.

Thermal Printing Technology:

The thermal printing technology used in the PeriPage is a major plus. It means there's no need for ink or toner replacements, making it cost-effective in the long run. The prints come out sharp and clear, and the paper roll lasts for a good number of prints.

Easy Setup and Use:

Getting started with the PeriPage is straightforward. The accompanying mobile app is user-friendly, and I was able to start printing within minutes of unboxing the device.

Fun and Creative Possibilities:

The pocket printer has opened up a world of creativity for me. From printing out photos on the go to creating custom labels and notes, it's a fun and versatile tool for creative projects.



Cons:

Limited Printing Speed:

The printing speed of the PeriPage is decent for its size, but it could be improved. Printing larger images or multiple copies can take some time, which may be a drawback for users seeking quick results.

Print Quality Could Be Better:

While the thermal prints are adequate for most purposes, I noticed some slight fading in certain prints. Enhancing the print resolution and quality would be a significant improvement.

Connectivity Reliability:

Though the Bluetooth connection usually works well, I experienced occasional connectivity hiccups and disconnections, which can be frustrating during printing tasks.

Paper Roll Replacement:

A quick-load mechanism could make it more user-friendly.


Conclusion:

The Riitek PeriPage Pocket Printer is a nifty gadget that brings printing convenience to the palm of your hand. Its compact and portable design, along with wireless Bluetooth connectivity, makes it a go-to device for on-the-go printing needs. The thermal printing technology and easy setup add to its overall appeal.

For its current price point, the Riitek PeriPage Pocket Printer offers good value, especially for users who need a portable printing solution. If you can overlook its minor shortcomings, it's a useful and creative tool to have in your arsenal.

Overall Rating: ★★★★☆ (4/5 stars)

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I hope this review helps you evaluate the Riitek PeriPage Pocket Printer thoroughly. Enjoy your portable printing adventures!



Tuesday, 18 June 2024

#ProductReview :: iFFALCON 108 cm (43 inches) 4K Ultra HD Smart LED Google TV

June 18, 2024 0 Comments

The iFFALCON 108 cm (43 inches) 4K Ultra HD Smart LED Google TV iFF43U62 is a feature-packed smart TV that promises an immersive viewing experience and easy access to a world of entertainment. After extensively using this TV, I can confidently say that it delivers on its promises with impressive picture quality, smart features, and seamless integration with Google services. However, a few minor issues prevent it from reaching a perfect score. Let's dive into the in-depth review:



Display Quality:

The 43-inch 4K Ultra HD display of the iFF43U62 is the centerpiece of this TV, and it doesn't disappoint. The colors are vibrant, and the 4K resolution ensures sharp details and clarity in images and videos. HDR support further enhances the dynamic range, making movies and shows visually captivating. Whether I'm watching streaming content or playing games, the display quality stands out as one of the TV's strongest features.


Performance:

Powered by a quad-core processor and equipped with ample RAM and storage, the iFF43U62 provides smooth performance and quick response times. Navigating through the user interface and switching between apps is snappy, with minimal lag. High-bitrate 4K videos play flawlessly, and gaming experiences are enjoyable, thanks to the low input lag.


Smart Features:

As a Google TV, the iFF43U62 comes with the latest Android TV OS, offering a vast selection of apps and services through the Google Play Store. The Google Assistant integration allows for voice commands, making it convenient to search for content or control smart home devices. The built-in Chromecast support enables easy casting of content from my phone or laptop to the big screen.


Sound Quality:

The TV's audio quality is decent, with clear dialogues and a reasonable level of bass. While it suffices for regular TV watching, a dedicated soundbar or external speakers would significantly enhance the audio experience, especially for immersive movie nights.


Design and Build:

The iFF43U62 sports a sleek and modern design, with slim bezels that draw focus to the expansive display. It's relatively lightweight and easy to mount on a wall or place on a stand. The build quality is good, though it's essential to handle the TV with care, as the plastic construction may feel a bit delicate.


Connectivity:

The iFF43U62 offers a good range of connectivity options, including multiple HDMI ports, USB ports, and Bluetooth support. Setting up various devices like gaming consoles, soundbars, and streaming devices is hassle-free.



Issues to Consider:

Limited App Library:

While the Google Play Store provides many apps, the library is not as extensive as some other smart TV platforms. Some popular apps may be missing, requiring workarounds or alternative casting methods.

Minor Motion Blur:

During fast-paced action scenes, I noticed a slight motion blur, which may be more noticeable to discerning viewers. Enabling motion-enhancing features can alleviate this issue to some extent.

Remote Control Design:

The included remote control lacks backlighting, which can be inconvenient in dimly lit environments. Additionally, some users may prefer a more premium feel for the remote.


Conclusion:

The iFFALCON 108 cm (43 inches) 4K Ultra HD Smart LED Google TV iFF43U62 is a feature-packed entertainment hub that delivers on its promise of impressive display quality and seamless smart features. The TV's 4K Ultra HD display and Google TV integration make it a compelling option for anyone looking to upgrade their home entertainment experience. While it has some minor shortcomings, they don't overshadow the overall positive experience this TV offers.

For its price range, the iFF43U62 is a solid choice, especially for those seeking a versatile and user-friendly smart TV with great picture quality and access to a world of content.

Overall Rating: ★★★★☆ (4/5 stars)

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I hope this comprehensive review helps you in evaluating the iFFALCON iFF43U62 smart TV. Enjoy your entertainment-filled moments!






Friday, 15 March 2024

Trivia 轉: Seesaw by SUGA of BTS - #FeatureFriday

March 15, 2024 0 Comments

Whenever I discover a new song that I like, I usually listen to it repeatedly for a week (or two) and then it trickles away for when mood strikes me again. This ONE song has been playing on loop for 2 months straight! I just cannot move on from this one. So, I have to rant… (and hope that helps me get it out of my system).


For context - I am new to the k-pop world. I loved ‘Standing Next to You’ & ‘Too sad to Dance’ by Jungkook and he got me curious enough to look into K-Pop. The logical next steps would be to go to BTS songs, but IG Reels took me to Run BTS clips and somehow, I landed up listening to ‘D-day’ Album by August D (Suga’s alter ego for his solo stuff). ‘Life Goes on’ and ‘Amygdala’ had their hooks into me. After listening to his solo album and the mixtapes, I went into SUGA’s solo songs as part of BTS albums. Once I heard ‘Trivia : Seesaw’, I have been stuck. FOR.TWO. MONTHS. NOW.


"Trivia : Seesaw" is SUGA’s solo song from the album Love Yourself: Answer. SUGA & Slow Rabbit have co-written co-produced the song. ‘See-saw’ is a toy/game for children that you see at a park. It is all about ups & downs and balance. At a glance (or a simple listen), it seems like Suga has used the ‘seesaw’ metaphor to convey the emotional push-and-pull between a couple and the constant shift of power in a romantic connection that has run its course. But it is Min Yoongi we are talking about - so it is never that simple. I don’t know if I have caught all the ‘see-saw’ (balance) aspects of the song or not, but here are the ones that I found (and can’t let go of).


Seesaw 1 - Lyrics

Though the lyrics sit perfectly about a romantic relationship, I personally feel that the song could also be about life. Most of us live with an illusion that we are in control of our life. But life likes to remind us every now and then that the feeling of being in control is just an illusion. So, I see a parallel there - between the constant struggle of people to get things under control and the pushbacks from life from time to time. Only, I think there is no getting off that see-saw until the final moment.

Seesaw 2 - Melody & Lyrics

The melody & the lyrics are at complete contrast with each other. For once, I think my language handicap came in handy because when I heard the song for the first time, I thought it must be a sweet song about the beauty of either life or relationships. Then I looked up the lyrics here and couldn’t believe how wrong I was. While the melody has a feel-good vibe, the lyrics bring out the darker side of relationships. Ironically, the part where I feel that the melody is the sweetest is where the lyrics are about how conniving people can be.



Seesaw 3 - Rap & Vocal

SUGA likes to pretend he can only rap & not sing. Yeah well, this is one of the many songs that say otherwise. The constant back and forth between his rap and vocals should have been more jarring, yet there’s a smooth balance there. His low tone is perfect for the vocal sections. Adora provides a soft touch with her backup vocals too.

Seesaw 4 - Tempo

The song constantly shifts between slow and fast(er)-paced, rhythmic portions. These tempo changes convey the emotional rollercoaster to reflect the emotions of the lyrics. During the verses, where the lyrics focuses on the complexities of a relationship, the tempo is slow giving it an introspective feel. In contrast, the tempo picks up during the emotionally charged sections - specifically the rap & chorus sections.

Seesaw 5 - Dynamics

The dynamics of the song compliments the tempo very well. The softer tones help create a sense of vulnerability and introspection. On the other hand, the chorus and rap sections often feature increased dynamics, creating a sense of urgency and intensity.


The metaphors in the lyrics, SUGA’s vocals and the tempo changes certainly stand out as the highlights of this song.


#QOTD - Have you heard this song before? If you have, what's the one thing that stood out for you? If you haven't, are you going to listen to it now?




Tuesday, 6 February 2024

#WOTY – Word of the Year 2024

February 06, 2024 0 Comments

I know I am very late in posting about my ‘Word of the Year’ as we are into February as I start writing this. Fact is, I had decided on the word in 2023 but I took the month of January to analyse what it would really mean; start living in accordance to that and see whether it is something I can carry on not only for this year but for rest of my life. Whether it is something truly feasible and sustainable. 

I have always been proud of the fact that I can see multiple perspectives in a situation. I may not truly understand each of them, but I do see them and try to understand them. When I got this Tattoo, it was to remind myself that there are multiple perspectives in every situation and that it doesn’t make my personal experiences wrong or insignificant. That I had every right to believe in my own perspective of my experience. That my feelings weren’t wrong just because someone else couldn’t see it nor were other people’s feelings wrong because I couldn’t understand it.


Back then I used to take pride in the fact that I could see the perspective of the person in front of me and cut them slack because of it. Yes, you read that right. I USED TO take pride in that. I no longer do because I came to realise that while I was trying to be kind and understanding towards other people - it meant (most of the time) being unkind and unfair to myself. I was the collateral. When I realised that late last year, I turned inwards and started being kind to myself instead. It wasn’t a conscious decision - it just started with ‘I don’t want to deal with this negativity anymore’ and it has brought me more peace than I expected.



In a world that constantly demands our attention, it's easy to lose sight of our own needs and desires. I want 'Perspective' to offer the opportunity to shift the focus inward, creating a space for self-reflection and introspection. I realised that my life is filled with noise. So is your’s, I am sure. If you stop and take stock of the responsibilities, the expectations of others, societal pressures, the constant influx of information, the general confusion and lack of focus around us - you’ll see how exhausting  and completely useless it really is. And, your personal growth is often stunted due to it. 

So, this year I have started to turn the lens inwards and ask myself - ‘do I want/need this’ and ‘is this good for me’ very consciously about every single thing. Whether it is good or bad - everything will be questioned and acted upon. I will slowly filter out the unnecessary and hone in on what truly matters to me and my own well being. Instead of being overly critical of myself, I will try to view my experiences through a lens that acknowledges my handwork, learnings and growth. I will continue to learn more things and subjects so that I can use it to understand myself better and make my own life better.

I know that I am going to disappoint a lot of people around me and am ready for people to start calling me selfish for not giving them time, space and understanding any longer. And, that’s okay.